In Episode 1, Michelle Matthews Calloway of theswirlworld.com tells us all to stop sitting by the phone or waiting at home for Mr. Right! Dating options are endless if you would just open your mind. Watch the excitement in the video now!

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  1. D. Liz Vance

    Loved every bit of this! I can say I was down with the swirl before I even knew what that meant; the first person I’d ever dated was a Korean boy. (We connected on what was important to us then – snacks and cartoons.) I’ve never yawned and hopped out of bed declaring,”I’m going to snag a different-colored dude today!” – I was just lucky to have a family who never taught me I needed to stay in a box.

    This bizarre phenomenon of loyalty and guilt is extremely common with African-American women, particularly those who 1) have low self-esteem; and 2) have never been traveled outside of the United States. I love that she mentioned Eve because she’s a prime example of how we are capable of finding quality partners when we’re not limiting ourselves. See also: Janet Jackson, Serena Williams.

    The fact is: race is purely a construct. We were meant to mix (which is why genetic disorders are so prevalent in white families who attempt to remain ‘pure’, but that’s a story for another day). As Imagine Me said, try dating other ethnicities! You might marry within or outside of your own (if you choose to marry at all) but along the way you may learn more about yourself. Live long and prosper 😉

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    • Anita Washington

      Wonderful perspective! Isn’t it lovely to grow up being exposed to all races and religions.

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  2. Imagine Me LLC

    I concur %. My father was not happy when I brought a Caucasian man home, but I was happy. We did things together, that some men see as soft. Needless to say, it did not work out, but I am always open to the idea.

    If you stay close minded, how will you ever know whether you like dating another race or not. That is like saying, I don’t like Dove soap or its harmful to my skin, and you have never tried it. One of my favorite sayings, “You cannot give me a chicken box and a half and half and think I will be okay with that everyday. I need variety.”

    You will never know until you try. If nothing more, you can say that you tried it, but did not like it. Even then, try again, as no one particular ethnicity is the same. Try dating multiple Caucasians, Asians, Mediterraneans, so on and so forth. Happy Dating in the Swirl World.

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    • Anita Washington

      A closed mind is indeed a selfish one. LOL! Retta you are a hoot!

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